Official!

Today we signed all the paperwork to make Aynsli our official daughter! What a crazy feeling! 

She has been acting very well! She whines from time to time and has a hard time communicating because of her cleft but she seems very laid back. She sleeps when we put her down and she eats when we feed her. 

I am seriously feeling the jet lag catching up with me today. Dizzy and nauseous so I would appreciate prayers to get over that so Luke doesn't have to be doing most of the entertaining! 

Gotcha day!

What a very overwhelming but joyful day. We met aynsli this morning at 9:30. And she was an angel! She whimpered for a few seconds and then has been pretty happy the rest of the day.  

We had to go to a police station to get her picture taken for her visa and she didn't make a peep.  We were in and out in 5 min. 

When we got back to the hotel she let us give her a bath(I've been told this is a hard step for some children to take), and change her clothes no problem! Then she played with us and aiden for a while before taking a bottle and then sleeping.  I rocked her for a few min then put her down- she talked to herself and fell asleep! I know we have a long road ahead of us but God has blessed us with a beautiful daughter and a joyful first day! 

I am most impressed by aiden today. He has shown such love and excitement for aynsli.  He has stepped up as the big brother and just thinks the world of her. It is so neat to watch! 

Day 1...

Today was a relaxing day around Wuhan.  It's amazing how good you feel after sleep and some food! :) 

We walked around the city and of course had to find a Starbucks for our coffee lover. ;) 

Found a park and a huge grocery/super store like 10 times the size of target! It was overwhelming to say the least but found all the essentials we needed! 

Ate out at an awesome authentic restaurant for dinner! Yum! 

They can smoke anywhere here, so whenever you walk into the hotel (which is very nice) it smells like smoke and also in the restaurants as well.  Glad to at least be on a no smoking floor!! 

We got all ready with paper work and girly stuff to go pick aynsli up tomorrow!! Prayers for a smooth transition would be appreciated!!! 

Here are some pics from the day :)

We made it!

We are in Wuhan after about 28 hours of traveling and little sleep! But the flights and transitions were smooth! Thanks for all the prayers! Tomorrow we get to explore the city and get ready for gotcha day- oh yea and sleep!!! I'll post more later!

Almost there!

First off I want to say that God is good and has definately answered our prayers during this ENTIRE process! Right down to deadlines, and paperwork (which is completely out of our control)! He is so good! So thank you all who have been praying for us faithfully during this busy time! And dont stop- we need your prayers more now then ever!! :)

The time has finally come... We got the approval we needed to travel to china to pick up our little girl! Even though we have been filling out paperwork and going through the legal process of adopting for over a year now we have been praying and preparing for longer than that to adopt. And now the time has come... In two weeks we will be heading over to china... It's a bit surreal... We've waited and waited and waited and now it's hurry up and get there!

Another concept that has hit me, as I frantically run around to get ready to travel, is that we have done all this prep and praying and buying girl stuff etc, and she has no clue what's about to happen. We are so prepared (and yet not!) and she has no part of her that is prepared for what will take place. She will be taken away from the people who have raised her for the past 18 months, taken from her home, her country, her food, everything she knows.  Yes we will love her and give her so much here in the US that we think is good.  However when it's different from all you have ever known it will not be viewed as good at the beginning (for her).

We are thankful at this opportunity to adopt and bring a life into our family who does not have one right now, but this is not going to be an easy process for anyone. We are praying daily for the transition for our boys and for her, and us, that it would be as smooth as possible.  We will be adopting Aynsli into our earthly family, similarly to the way God has adopted us into His eternal family- he new us before we were even born and chose us. Aynsli will have all the rights that a VDP does.  But she doesn't know yet, the love she's about to experience, the comforts of a family and home, and yet the hard transition.  

I will send out a prayer schedule soon for those of you would like to support us through prayer- which we most certainly need.  So if you would like me to email it to you please send me a message with your email- katevdp@hotmail.com.  And I will be updating this blog as much as I possibly can while we are there so make sure to check it! Thank you all for the love and support we already feel! We couldn't do this without the support of the body!

MATCHED!!

On December 16^th we got a call that changed our lives!  There was a sweet 15-month-old little girl needed us!  That night we looked at her precious pictures over and over.  We showed each of the boys her picture at separate times and each one said, “AW!! She’s so cute!!”  They love her so much already and they have been praying for her for a year now (we have prayed much longer for her!).   Walker (4.5 years old) has prayed for his “baby sister” every day for the past year.  His faith is amazing and encourages us everyday.  He has never given up praying for her health, safety, and that we would be able to go get her quickly everyday for the past year!  I love how God has used our children thought this whole process! True example of “faith like a child.” 

We spent a couple weeks talking to doctors regarding her medical condition and praying for her.  After much prayer, consultation and thinking about her day and night, we decided to write a letter of intent to adopt her!  Technically our letter of intent was sent to China on January 8, 2014.  I guess there are delays during the holidays everywhere!  In the meantime we had received an email detailing some of the next steps.  It mentioned that the average travel time to China (we travel to China for two weeks to pick her up) was approximately 6-9 months!?!? We were extremely devastated by this news, we were under the impression it would NOT be that long.  So needless to say this set us back a bit and we became discouraged. 

There are two main stages of waiting until you can travel to China to pick up your child.  The first stage is to wait for your letter of approval.  This typically takes about 1-4 months.  However, Chinese New Year is at the end of January and we have been informed how things shut down in the country for a couple weeks.  One night I was talking to Luke and mentioned, “ We need to just pray for supernatural speed to get our letter of approval.  The only way we are going to get this letter earlier than the Chinese New Year would be if God speeds things up!”  I had told several people, who are praying faithfully for us, about this specific prayer to speed up the letter of approval. 

On the evening of January 14, I received a phone call from our agency and the girl on the other end of the phone said she had some good news for us.  Great, I thought, but what could it be?  She said she received our letter of approval that day from China!!! WHAT?! Really, but its only been 6 days since our letter of intent went over there!! It was true.  I asked her if this is a normal occurrence; for someone to get it that quickly?  She informed me that this NEVER happens. AHH!!! I was ecstatic.

I went on to tell her why it happened so quickly- we prayed for this!  She approximates travel time from now- only 3 months! YAY! That’s what we were hoping for from day one- only a couple months until we could go get her!  God’s timing all along has been absolutely perfect- did we expect anything less?!

            The next step is waiting for our next set of paperwork to arrive before we can plan and schedule our travel.  We are hoping to bring all the boys with us because of how amazing would it be to us a family to have everyone there!  They would never forget their trip to rescue their sister.  However we have to see if finances will allow it and if other details can be worked out.

            We are asking for prayer that all the final details will work out, that we will get to travel by April to China, that our whole family can go, and she would stay healthy and safe.  Thank you for all the support we have had already.  We are so grateful for our friends and family and feel so blessed by those surrounding us!

            As I think about meeting this little girl, becoming her mom, bringing her into our family, and taking care of her medical needs, I get overwhelmed and sometimes fearful that I won’t know how to do it all.  There are so many unknowns, but then God reminds me that He is in control and He will equip us for every good work.  And that’s when I feel His arms around me and the peace and strength only He can give.  Its amazing…His love for us.  That’s all I need to do- show this little girl the love of Jesus. 

            In church this past Sunday we sang a song called, How Deep the Father’s Love for Us, and I could barely get the words out.  I just kept thinking about how much God, the father loves us, and how much I love all my children.   He loves us more than we can even imagine; more than we can love anyone here on earth, which is so incredibly hard to fathom.  It leaves me speechless.

How Deep the Father’s Love for Us

How deep the Father's love for us,
How vast beyond all measure
That He should give His only Son
To make a wretch His treasure

How great the pain of searing loss,
The Father turns His face away
As wounds which mar the chosen One,
Bring many sons to glory

Behold the Man upon a cross,
My sin upon His shoulders
Ashamed I hear my mocking voice,
Call out among the scoffers

It was my sin that held Him there
Until it was accomplished
His dying breath has brought me life
I know that it is finished

I will not boast in anything
No gifts, no power, no wisdom
But I will boast in Jesus Christ
His death and resurrection

Why should I gain from His reward?
I cannot give an answer
But this I know with all my heart
His wounds have paid my ransom

We leave you with these precious pictures of our beautiful daughter, Aynsli Quinn (open to spelling suggestions- that part is not final yet :) )

                 

                                          

Little update!

Sorry for the lack of updates, but as many of you know it's a ton of paperwork and waiting!!  We did just recieve our approval from homeland security to adopt, which we waited 2 months for! Yay! 

The next step is to get all of our documents in place to send over for our dossier (official legal paperwork that goes to China). Hopefully all that will be ready in a few weeks, or at most a month! 

The puzzle is coming along! Thank you again so much to all those who have donated! We could not do it without each one of you that have helped! God is using so many people to bring our little girl home! 
We are having a garage sale June 27 and 28 and all the proceeds will benefit our adoption as well. If anyone has anything to donate or you just want to come help or shop, inbox me or email for more information, katevdp@hotmail.com. Thank you to all those who have donated already, we are starting to get pretty full! :)  We are truly blessed!

We know that God is in control of this whole process and have already seen Him work through every step! He is so good! We can't wait to meet the little girl that God has for us in China!